The third pillar of wellbeing

Realth is the state of your relational and emotional wellbeing.

It lives in you, shows up in your relationships, and shapes the world you leave behind.

Free. Try the first 20 questions with no account.

Health is the physical you.

Wealth is the financial you.

Realth is the relational you.

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It lives in you.

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It shows up in your relationships.

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It shapes the world you leave behind.

Measure your Realth.

Take the free assessment, get your Realth Score, and see what to work on first.

1

Complete an assessment.

150 questions, about 30 minutes. Try the first 20 with no account.

2

Get a score.

Your Realth Score, plus a score in each of the five Realth Zones.

3

Identify the one thing that needs your attention most right now.

Your Realth Report points you toward the one Realth Zone to work on first.

The five Realth Zones

Self
Who you are, how you think, and what shapes you.
Emotions
What you feel, why you feel it, and how to handle it well.
Relationships
How you connect, communicate, and respond to others.
Values
What matters most to you and how you live it.
Engagement
How you give yourself to what matters, through your work, contribution, creativity, service, and presence in the world.

Nobody taught you how to people.

This part of life should be taught.

How many years did you spend learning how to be in a relationship? Most of us got zero years.

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Debbie Johnson
A note from me

I’ve spent almost twenty years figuring out what nobody taught me: how to actually be in a relationship with another human being.

I’m here for the person who recognizes in me the thing they need, and decides to stick around for it.

Welcome in.

Deb

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Who do you need to become?

Free. Try the first 20 questions with no account.

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    Realth

    Realth lives in you, shows up in your relationships, and shapes the world you leave behind.

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